“社交恐惧症”也是一种心理疾病父母又该如何避免

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谈到“社交恐惧症”,你需要谈论共同的社交活动。不要以为你在成年期开始社交活动。事实上,您在宝宝出生后开始社交活动。例如,当你的宝宝吮吸母亲的乳头,婴儿和母亲时。第一个社交活动已经开始,据估计很多人都没有想到。

家庭需要培养婴儿的社交技能,这实际上是培养婴儿和与婴儿互动的能力。科学已经证明,社交能力对宝宝的智力发育有着非常重要的影响,也会影响宝宝成长后的社会生活,因此父母必须注意培养宝宝的社交能力。

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为什么婴儿患有“社交恐怖症”?

每个宝宝的个性都不同。有些宝宝活泼活泼,特别喜欢和他们的小朋友一起玩耍;有些宝宝内向,胆小,害怕与朋友相处。许多父母不注意这个问题,并认为当他们长大后,他们可以“治愈”。事实上,这种婴儿的行为是一种精神疾病,专家称之为“儿童的社交退缩行为”。

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当您进入陌生的环境或出现意外情况时,您的宝宝会短暂地退缩。随着时间的推移,婴儿将慢慢适应环境并最终恢复正常。至关重要的是,如果这种短期撤退没有得到妥善纠正,婴儿就容易出现社交敏感症状,其中最严重的是出现“社交恐怖症”。

为了宝宝的身心健康,减少社交恐惧症的可能性,父母需要培养更多宝宝的社交技巧,应该做些什么?

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当宝宝1至2岁时:参加小组活动并不断表达自己

家长需要带领宝宝参加各种团体活动。通过参与活动,与孩子接触的人越多,孩子的胆量就越大,孩子对社交敏感的可能性就越小。当宝宝大约1岁时,孩子就会愿意参与社交活动。家长可能希望创造机会,适当发展他们的社交技巧,并鼓励他们的孩子表达自己。

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出乎意料的是,婴儿对其他人玩具的竞争也是孩子们社交的一种方式。作为父母,不要阻止它,让宝宝与其他朋友交换玩具。通过交换玩具,宝宝也会知道如何与朋友分享玩具是正常的事情。孩子们可以做更多的事情来分享彼此,让孩子们感受到分享事物的快乐,人际关系可以更加和谐。

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当宝宝2到3岁时:积极参与游戏并融入小组

积极参与游戏是解决孩子“社交恐惧症”的有效方法,也是培养宝宝社交能力的好方法。孩子们在游戏中成长,可以增加他们的社交体验。要提出建议,您可以邀请其他孩子在家玩。这有助于提高孩子的社交能力。父母不必担心他们的孩子会因为没有朋友而感到孤独。

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值得一提的是,在社会过程中,儿童总是存在一些矛盾,因此处理矛盾的社会能力非常重要。在矛盾无法解决的情况下,家长应进行适当的指导教育。问孩子矛盾的原因,然后教育孩子如何理解朋友之间的矛盾,最后解决矛盾,这有助于培养孩子解决冲突的社交技巧。

当您的宝宝4至5岁时:提高您的口头表达能力并表达您的内心想法

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The famous educator and speaker Carnegie said: "One person's success depends on professional skills and 75% on language." If the child's oral expression is poor, it will not only affect the child's learning, but also It will also lead to missed opportunities for children to find jobs and start businesses in the future. Speaking ability needs to be cultivated from an early age, so that children will be more confident and outstanding.

To improve their oral expression skills, parents must constantly encourage their baby to speak and speak. In addition, when children communicate with other children, parents are advised to use appropriate words to help their children express their inner thoughts, so that the communication between children will be smoother and the baby's social skills will not be prone to problems.

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Parents: Lead by example and set an example

Parents are children's role models, many babies will imitate the social way of their parents, so parents must pay attention to their behavior, do not let children develop bad social habits. The child's age is small, many things do not understand, but parents can not do everything, but also need to ask the child's wishes, and give the child full respect, so that the relationship between parents and children can be more harmonious and harmonious.

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Park Wangjun said:

In summary, parents need to pay more attention to the baby's social problems, and create more opportunities for the baby to communicate with others. Social communication ability is a complex knowledge. As parents can not interfere excessively, they should be guided moderately so that children can have a good social ability when they grow up!

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